Will Chris Do Time?

Chris Brown entered his "Not Guilty" plea yesterday but rumors are circulating that the young star may enter a plea agreement that requires "some jail time."

Story developing.......

Wellness Tip of the Day!!

Check out the National Weight Control Registry (www.nwcr.ws) to find out about people who have maintained at least a 30-pound weight loss for one year. There is variety in how NWCR members keep the weight off. Most report continuing to maintain a low-calorie, low-fat diet and doing high levels of activity. On average, 90 percent exercise about one hour per day; 78 percent eat breakfast every day; 75 percent weigh themselves at least once a week; and 62 percent watch less than 10 hours of TV per week.

Mel B's In Vegas!!!

If you thought she was sitting around waiting for child support checks from Eddie, you were wrong. The former Spicy Girl, Mel B, has reinvented herself as a burlesque dancer in Las Vegas. Here are a few pictures from her debut performance this past month. If you happen to be in Vegas make sure you drop by Planet Hollywood Resort and Casino for Mel B's peep show.

I don't know about you, but this picture makes me wanna run a mile and fast for two weeks. Mel B has one of the hottest bodies in the industry. There's no wonder why Eddie couldn't resist!!

Look Who's Pregnant

Ticha Cambell-Martin.

Congrats to the lovely actress. I hope this news will dispell any myths about hubby Duanne Martin being gay....(maybe).

But any who I wish them both success!!!

Settle For Less - Or Be Alone

I found this article on one of my favorite sites, Necole Bitchie.com and had to share it.

The article features a comment made by a black man, in response to a Black woman's thought on 'Settling for Less or Being Alone." Read below to see what he had to say:

"Bottom line-if I sleep with a woman I don’t know or care about SEX is NOT going to make me care. That kind of sex is like scratching an itch. Once a man scratches, he’s through. He ain’t sitting around thinking about that spot that itched or how good it felt scratching it. He’s moving on with his life until that spot itches again and it don’t matter which hand he scratches it with, just as long as he gets rid of the itch.

Too many women PRETEND they can handle a sexual fling, but wind up getting caught up and wanting us to romance and wine and dine them and pretend we’re having a “relationship” when it’s NOTHING but a boooty call. Come on, ladies, y’all know I’m telling the truth.

Unfortunately, ladies, you are part of our problem. You sleep with us BEFORE you know us or what we’re about. Having sex with a man does not automatically make that a “relationship”. Many women will deny they think like this but I’m speaking from personal experience. Also, ladies know when their men are fooling around and still turn a blind eye by getting mad at the other woman. Now what kind of sense does that make? Why should that woman make YOU(a total stranger) a priority in her life? IF HE DID NOT MARRY YOU HE IS STILL SINGLE. The “other woman” is not breaking up a “happy home”.

Many women marry men who were cheating BEFORE they walked down the aisle and then are SHOCKED that a fancy wedding dress or an expensive walk down the aisle didn’t change who he was. Why should he change? YOU let him know it was acceptable by sticking around that long.

Ladies, start living with your eyes OPEN. Most shady men give themselves away one way or another, usually before the first 30 days. Women have to stop “rewarding” unfaithful men by pretending it ain’t happening. All of us Black Men (BM) do not cheat. I do not cheat on my lady so don’t buy the hype. I know other BM who do not but many men WILL cheat if there are NO real penalties for it.

Stop jumping into bed with brothers YOU DON’T KNOW. That means fewer opportunities for men to cheat. Women have to STOP being so afraid to ask the important questions that would reveal his TRUE lifestyle.

Worry LESS about what kind of job he has and what kind of car he drives and encourage him to talk about his past, particularly his past with women. OPEN those ears and listen. Does he put down his ex-women and blame them for everything? And don’t be so vain. You are NOT a better woman than his last. If he dogged her out, you will probably be NEXT.

Observe him when you are with him. Do you have his home number? Work number? Have you seen where he lives? Where he works? Is he secretive? Did you ask if he’s married or engaged? How does he treat other people? Listen to what he says, NOT what you want to hear. Stop INTERPRETING the meaning of what he says to fit your purposes.

If he says, “I’m not lookin’ for nothing right now” - DON’T tell yourself, “Aw, he just scared of getting hurt. I can change his mind..” NO YOU CAN’T. He said exactly what the hell he meant. BM don’t have to lie when so many BW are already DEAF.

If you can’t answer BASIC questions about a man DON’T OPEN YOUR LEGS. I could kinda understand back in the days when sex wouldn’t KILL people but now? There’s no excuse and if a BW takes that huge risk of sleeping with a STRANGER then she better protect herself - sexually AND emotionally.

Show our d*ck to the door if we pressure you for sex too soon. Don’t be afraid to be alone. After you give our d*ck some you will probably be alone anyway but now you feel like a fool. In other words, take your time and check us out. If we REALLY like you, we’ll stick around. BUT if you decided to sleep with a man you hardly know, PROTECT yourself and keep your expectations to ZERO. We do not owe you a relationship or another date just because you had sex with us. That’s not how it works, baby

You are TOTALLY RESPONSIBLE for your own sexual behavior the same as I am. Blaming the man won’t change a damn thing. BW have to look in the mirror and take SOME of the blame for what’s wrong with BM/BW relationships. Let me end by saying….

SEX DOES NOT EQUAL A RELATIONSHIP. GIVING A MAN A READY-MADE FAMILY WILL NOT MAKE HIM COMMIT IF HE DOESN’T WANT TO. A MAN WILL NOT RESPECT A WOMAN WHO DOES NOT RESPECT HERSELF OR HER BODY, IF YOU TRADE SEX FOR MATERIAL THINGS YOU ARE PROSTITUTING YOURSELF.

IF HE DOESN’T TAKE CARE OF HIS OTHER CHILDREN WHY WOULD YOU HAVE A BABY WITH HIM? IF YOU REWARD A DOG WHY SHOULD MEN STOP BEING DOGS? BRING MORE TO THE TABLE THAN YOUR BODY. NO, YOUR PUSSY IS NOT MADE OF GOLD. IT IS ONLY AS GOOD AS I THINK IT IS. BELIEVE THAT."

So ladies...what are your thoughts?

King Magazine's Final Issue

Sorry fellas.....after April 21, you'll have to look elsewhere for fat booties and tig o' bitties.....King Magazine will release it's last issue later this month. Rumors are, that Joe Budden's girlfriend, Tahiry will be the lucky lady to grace the cover....
If you're a fan of King Magazine I'm sure you'll agree that one of the best cover pictures was my girl Stacy Dash........At age 42, I hope I look like this!!! Work it Stacy!!

Love * Sex* and Ciara

I knew Ciara was a freak when she came out with her first single "Goodies," and if dating 50 cent didn't confirm it, this video will.

Cici dropped her second single, "Love, Sex and Magic," featuring Justin Timberlake, and let's just say she brought sex back.....The video left me speechless....I wonder how 50 felt about it.

Anyway there's been several comments about the video and how Justin has once again objectified a black woman. One of my favorite sites Soul Bounce posted an article recently questioning how Justin Timberlake can still objectify Black Women and get away with it.

"It’s not even his song but in the video he’s in the opening scene, pulling on a chained Ciara. Whenever the two are interacting she is doing all kinds of sexy acrobatics for him–crawling over him, stick out her ass for him to lean on, bumping him with her breasts–but he can barely be bothered to look her in the face half of the time…and he’s on screen a lot. She looks desparate, and he looks like a pimp. As the video progresses and their roles become more evident it gets more disgusting."

I'm not sure how to feel about it, although I don't understand the logic behind the video. If you've seen it, let me know your thoughts on it....Is Justin crossing major lines here?

Amber lookin chick...

Christina Milian doesn't look so bad after all. The more I look at her the more she reminds me of Kanye's new boo, Amber Rose. Although she looks much better with darker hair, I'm kinda feeling her new look and give her much props for trying something different.

While the diva struts her stuff next to her hunny 'The Dream,' I can't help but wonder if she's really into HIM or his money. The two became an item (despite their comments to the media) a short while before he dropped his second album "Love vs. Money," and before she flopped her second album "Dream in Color."
Not sure what the dynamic is here, but its definitely an odd couple. Hopefully Milian is using Dream for his music rather his money, because her career could surely use a boost. Either way I wish them well, and I hope Milian runs a jet black rinse through that head....